Feeling Left Out as a Stepmom: Why It Happens and What to Do

Have you ever felt like an outsider in your own home? In this heartfelt and practical episode, Alicia breaks down why stepmoms often feel left out of family moments — and what you can do about it.

From unspoken group texts to being excluded from decisions and traditions, Alicia shares real-life examples (including a cringe-worthy moment at Cedar Point) that will have you nodding your head thinking, “Yes. That’s me.”

But more importantly, she gives you five practical strategies to help you feel seen, heard, and respected in your role — without begging for inclusion.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why feeling left out doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong
  • How loyalty binds, emotional labor, and societal norms play into stepmom exclusion
  • Common moments where stepmoms feel invisible
  • How to speak up without blowing up
  • How to create your own traditions, set boundaries, and reframe what inclusion really means

Whether you’re deep in the trenches or just starting your journey, this episode will remind you that you’re not invisible — and you’re definitely not alone.

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