Your stepmom bestie and coach-all in one!
YOU'VE JUST FOUND THE ULTIMATE LIFELINE FOR STEPMOMS
There are several Stepmom Coaches you could go to, but you’re here with me? Smart move.
I went from googling “how to get divorce” on the regular to loving my stepkids so much I wasn’t sure I wanted them to leave. That’s wild, right?
Hey there, frustrated (overwhelmed?) stepmom! If you’re here, you’ve probably been Googling more “How to survive being a stepmom” articles than you care to admit. Well, guess what? You’ve stumbled upon the right corner of the internet – consider yourself lucky!
I’m Alicia, and let me just say, I get it. I’ve been where you are – from contemplating how to stage a great escape to actually embracing the chaos and finding joy in being a stepmom. It’s been a journey filled with twists, turns, and more than a few eye-rolling moments.
With over a decade of navigating the stepmom rollercoaster, I’m here to be your coach, confidante, and occasional comic relief. Unlike those freebies that dish out advice like it’s a bland casserole, I spice things up with a healthy dose of humor, sarcasm, and real talk.
Here, it’s all about your unique family dynamic. No cookie-cutter solutions or one-size-fits-all advice – just personalized coaching tailored to fit you like your favorite pair of yoga pants (comfy and oh-so-flattering).
So, kick off those heels (or sneakers, or slippers – no judgment here), grab a cup of your preferred beverage (wine encouraged but not required), and let’s embark on this wild stepmom journey together. Because hey, if we can’t laugh through the chaos, what’s the point?
HERE'S THE DEAL...
I can support you in a couple different ways.
The Stepmom Side Community
24/7 support when you need it. Filled with other stepmoms that understand what you’re going through
1:1 Coaching
Coaching for the stepmom who is ready for actionable advice and support so she she finds her confidence
How coaching works:
Book Your Session: Select your coaching package and choose a date/time that fits your hectic schedule. Once you're booked in, I'll shoot over an initial questionnaire. Pro tip: spill the beans! The more detail you provide, the better I can swoop in fully prepared – no time-wasting here!
The Pre-Call Anticipation: Waiting for your session is like waiting for the next season of your favorite show – the suspense is real! On the call day, I'll do a quick recap of your initial questionnaire to ensure I've got the lowdown. Expect follow-up questions and requests for more juicy context.
Real-Time Stress-Busting: It’s showtime! Together, we'll tackle your stressors in real-time, like a dynamic duo on a mission. We'll hit those goals you set in the initial questionnaire, ensuring you walk away feeling validated, seen, and with a little extra pep in your step.
Post-Call Recap: After our meeting of the minds, I'll send over a follow-up email recapping our coaching session. But hey, it's not all about what needs fixing – I'll highlight what you're already nailing, too! Remember, even the tiniest progress is still progress, and I'm here to cheer you on every step of the way.
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10 Things I Wish I Knew
Ready for the wild ride of being a stepmom? Buckle up and learn the things I wish I would have known in my early years. Thank me later!
I never thought I would be a Stepmom Coach.
I was single and living my life and then, by chance, met my husband and soon realized that I had signed up for more than I bargained for. There’s nothing like starting a new relationship and having to deal with an ex and kids-it quickly became clear that this wasn’t going to be a “walk in the park”.
I operated in a very black and white world and, you know, that doesn’t work so well in the stepmom world. Needless to say, I struggled. More than I was willing to admit to anyone-myself included. Soon, I found myself googling “how to get divorced.” Even though I was crazy about my husband, I was not crazy about all of the other factors at play.
I spent countless hours googling “stepmom help,” “stepmom support,” and “what do I do if I hate being a stepmom?” and felt like none of the support really spoke to my situation: aviation, an age gap relationship, and a headstrong personality.
After coming to terms with gulp I needed help, we signed up for marriage counseling.
Lots and lots of tears (and checking my ego) later, things started to fall into place. I was now equipped with the tools I didn’t know I needed. I was able to regulate my emotions (who knew you could tame a hothead?). I was able to calmly, clearly articulate my needs, wants, and desires.
Lots and lots of tears (and Doing the work personally has helped me navigate my life as a stepmom much easier. Seeing how our relationship has turned out, I became obsessed with helping other stepmoms navigate this often lonely, isolating role. I’ve been able to help over hundreds of stepmoms and am excited to get that number into the thousands. No gatekeeping of stepmom success here!
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Real Results from Real Stepmoms
I've helped 100's of Stepmoms.
I’ve helped stepmoms go from feeling “less than/insecure” to feeling confident in their role.
I’ve helped them find their voice and communicate (calmly/clearly) with their partners.
I’ve helped them learn how to let things go, not let the past creep in, not take things personally, get the ex “out” of their head, validated their feelings, feel less alone, and not crazy.
