Alicia tackles the unspoken phase of stepmom life—the before. You’ve met the kids. You’re dating the dad. You’re not a stepmom technically, but you’re already feeling all the weird, confusing emotions that come with blending families.
This “in-between” season is messy, emotional, and full of what the actual efffffmoments. Alicia breaks down how to ease into your role, communicate expectations before moving in, handle the third-wheel vibes when your partner and his ex still do holidays or sports events together, and why it’s okay to feel overwhelmed before you’re even officially in it.
Whether you’re brand new to stepmom life or standing at the edge wondering if you’re about to dive into bonus mom territory—you’ll walk away from this episode with clarity, tools, and that classic Alicia real talk.
Inside this episode:
- What to consider before moving in with your partner
- How to handle feeling like an outsider at kid events and family moments
- Tips for integrating into the kids’ lives in a way that actually feels good for everyone
- The importance of early conversations around parenting roles, boundaries, and expectations
- Why getting support before you’re a full-time stepmom is a game-changer
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Resources mentioned:
Set Your Stepfamily Up for Success: How to Create House Expectations that Work for Everyone!
