Does it feel like you’re the only one laying down the law while your partner lets things slide? Are you starting to resent your stepkids when the real issue is a lack of teamwork with your partner? In this episode, Alicia breaks down why your frustration with discipline isn’t really about the kids—it’s about getting on the same page with your partner.
Alicia shares insights, practical tips, and mindset shifts to help you stop feeling like the “bad guy” in your home and start building house expectations that actually stick. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel more confident and ready to approach your partner with a clear plan for creating structure and peace in your home.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why your stepkids aren’t the problem and how to shift your mindset.
- The importance of setting house expectations with your partner.
- How to approach the conversation without triggering defensiveness.
- Actionable tips to create a united front in parenting and discipline.
- What to do when your partner’s dad guilt gets in the way.
Links & Resources Mentioned:
- Free resource: Set Your Stepfamily Up for Success: How to Create House Expectations That Work for Everyone!
- Podcast Episode #66: Caught In the Middle: The Truth About Dad Guilt in Stepfamilies
- Join The Stepmom Side Community for support and advice: Here
- Book a 1:1 Coaching Call: Here