When your partner sides with the kids, it can feel like betrayal — or at the very least, like you’ve been completely shut out. This episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast digs into those moments of emotional hurt and confusion that so many stepmoms experience but few talk about openly.
We explore the power dynamics at play and the often invisible loyalty binds that pull at your partner — and how those dynamics can impact your marriage, your mental health, and the overall vibe in your blended family.
You’ll hear:
- Why siding with the kids is so common (and so painful)
- Scripts you can use when it happens
- Tools for repairing trust and rebuilding your team dynamic
- A reminder that you’re not asking your partner to choose — you’re asking to be seen
If you’ve ever felt unheard, disrespected, or like the “outsider” in your own home, this is a must-listen. You deserve a relationship that honors your voice and supports a united parenting approach.
Resources mentioned:
Free: Mastering the Stressors
Apply for Couples Coaching
Podcast episode: Caught in the Middle: The Truth About Dad Guilt in Stepfamilies
